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Relationship Design 1 – Common’ish Styles

When we are talking about relationship design, there are some simple but NOT easy (very much so) steps to take and the first one is breaking with the belief that there is only one way to conduct relationships or, perhaps even worse, that there is only one “right” form of relationship. Let’s geek out a little on numbers (and a …

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How to bring sex into dating?

This is another one of those questions that come up often in our coaching. “How do I bring up sex on a first or second date?” or “How do I take the date to the bedroom either tonight or down the line?” or even “How do I talk about sex with someone and not scare them away?” And I get …

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Dating 2 (of 3)

I mentioned in a post a while back that I keep posting about the dating series events that I run at the moment. In Dating 1 (of 3) I talked about the exploration of why we date and the limiting beliefs that get in the way. In the next installment of the series I am talking with everybody about needs, …

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Dating 1 (of 3)

As promised in my last post I outlined my first evening lecture/meeting/discussion group on dating and, also as promised, I am sharing the information here with you. We live in a society that tells us we are broken somehow if we are single. So we throw ourselves into a relationship or marriage just so we can feel normal in the …

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Dating – What’s Up With That?

When I gave our last lecture, I asked people for feedback. I wanted to know what they liked and what they didn’t like, what they learned and also what topic they would like to have covered in the future. And one request that came from several sides was “Dating”. I shrugged and moved on. And then I got thinking and wondering …