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Dating – What’s Up With That?

When I gave our last lecture, I asked people for feedback. I wanted to know what they liked and what they didn’t like, what they learned and also what topic they would like to have covered in the future. And one request that came from several sides was “Dating”. I shrugged and moved on. And then I got thinking and wondering …

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Dating, Intimacy or Romance?

That is the question I am asking myself right now. Not so much in my own life – I go for all 3. This is about the next lecture I am giving here in Portland on May 21st and I have yet to decide on a topic. Yesterday we kicked off the event series, aptly titled “Sex, Relationship, Intimacy – …

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Why Can’t We Just All Be Sluts

  This morning I read a facebook post in one of my groups. It was posted in a co-ed group that is concerned with masculinity and what it means to be a man. In this group, somebody posted the above picture, which is taken from yesterday’s Wall Street Journal. It did spark some interesting debate. As expected, the biggest points …

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Start With Why

Tomorrow I am holding my first lecture under the Desire.Guru business name. I am so excited and I am also terrified. I talked in my very first post here about the pressure I feel around the name Desire.Guru. I could let it go somewhat by changing my thought patterns on the matter but the closer I get to the actual …

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A Weekend In San Francisco

I am in a coaching program to, who would have guessed, deepen my coaching practice. It is over the course of 6 months with monthly immersions and one just ended and I got back to portland yesterday around noon. To save money, I drive down to SF. I start out on Thursday morning and then drive for about 11 hours …